whether you are a stay at home mum or a working mum, you can agree with me that we barely have enough time. Our to-do-lists seem to be never ending and on most days, we have several items we do not check off our lists and schedules.
It should not surprise you to know that you are not alone.
For many people, there is this feeling of being distant or disconnected from God. You know you should spend time with God, you know it has been a while, you miss communing with God, you miss hearing from God but you need to do the dishes, get the house cleaned up, go to school, go to work, write a ton of reports, prepare food, go to the market etc. You simply do not have the time and you honestly feel like God understands the depths of your heart and he knows really well that given the ‘time’ you would pray and study the word.
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Matthew 6:33
The one thing to note is that sacrifice is essential for any relationship to thrive. The truth is, you can always find time for God. Do you love God enough to sacrifice time for Him?
And when he had sent the multitudes away, he went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, he was there alone.Matthew 14:23
And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, he went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed. Mark 1:35
My dad recently told me something about ‘tithe of time’. Very interesting. He said we tithe on our money which is good but what of our time? What is ten percent of 24 hours? That is the minimum time we should spend with God everyday. These words pierced deep into my soul, I never saw it from that angle. I spent a full week wondering where I could get at least 2 hours and 15 minutes to spend with God. Turns out I did not even have to look too far.
Everytime I wake up. I meet my husband studying and making notes. He wakes up an hour or two earlier than he should, that is when He studies the Bible and i decided to follow suit. On the days I have to go to school (it is a 3-4 hour journey), I read my Bible on the road. And you know with technology, the Bible app is very handy. This goes way beyond reading one verse or checking out the verse of the day. Read chapters. Make notes. Read. Pray.
Just Read and keep on reading.
It is all about priorities. For instance, On the long journey to school, I could listen to music all they way, read a novel or even sleep (cos Lord knows I need sleep…lol) but spending time with God is important, so important that the other options simply do not matter.
That is my story. Now it is your turn, how is your schedule? You want to pray, you want to read the word of God but you are too caught up with life to do that. How much time do you spend on social media? Can you sacrifice that time for God? How much time do you spend on reading books that do not any way or form enhance your spiritual life? Give that time to God. How much time do you spend on movies and tv shows? Give that time to God.
There is an interesting story in Acts 24:24-27 of Felix who had a chance to be saved but said the time was not convenient. You miss out on a lot when you do not spend time with God. How do you even grow spiritually? How do you hear from God? How do find guidance and purpose in life?
Which of these excuses sound familiar: ‘Let me take a nap, I will spend time with God when I wake up’, ‘As soon as the demands from work reduce, I will have time for God’, ‘I will find time when…’
When it comes to spending time with God, do not procrastinate. If sin is the reason you seem to never have time for God, deal with that sin. Have a relationship with God not a one night stand. God needs committed people who love Him and are willing to spend time with Him. Are you one? Are you willing to be one?
David faced so many trials, most of them were life threatening. The only way he survived was by completely trusting God. Being a believer means becoming a warrior. Yes. They go together, kind of like a package deal. The devil will target you if you are a believer, the devil will relentlessly war against you to destroy your faith and confidence in God. So many people have lost faith in the course of their walk with God due to trials and adversities. Many times, he even attacks your testimony as a believer and even fellow members of the body of Christ may doubt you. Do not be shaken. Let me repeat, do not be shaken. I love Psalm 27 so much and I love the fact that David always turned to God for hope and vindication in times of trials. If you are passing through similar times, read this psalm over and over again. Develop the heart of a warrior just like David. Focus on God and you will be victorious.
Hey guys!!! I have uploaded the 30 days prayers for (y)our children here. If you want to pray for your children but do not know how or you have no idea how to start, this is the perfect guide. There are various Bible verses to make reference to as you study and pray. Do not read alone, tell a friend or two.
God bless you!!!
The sons of Eli the priest were unruly and they dishonoured God time and time again. Eli could not discipline his children. Eli was a busy man, busy working for the Lord while neglecting his family but you know something, God did not see it that way.
1 Samuel 2:12-36
According to the laws given in Numbers 15:22-31, Eli’s sons should have been executed. Perhaps that was why he could not confront the situation. However, God had to step in. Hophni and Phinehas were seducing women who came to the tabernacle to worship, they treated the offerings of the Lord with contempt and they were unruly.
When God called Samuel, He told Samuel what he would do to Eli who could not control his children. Samuel was still a boy at this time.
1 Samuel 3:10-15
Many years later, the boy Samuel had become a grown man with a family of his own. He served God in several ramifications: as a judge, a priest and a prophet. Remember, Samuel was an answer to Hannah’s prayer and Hannah handed him over to God. however, Samuel just like Eli could not control his children. His children were nothing like him. They took bribes and perverted judgements
1 Samuel 8:3-5
They were so bad that the people would rather have a king rule over them than continue in the system of priests and judges. When you dedicate your life to serving God, grooming children with the fear of God is part of the service.
Discipline and correction is part of love. when you leave your children to behave however they like, know that there will be a day of reckoning. We are in the era of the new covenant so God would require you or anyone else to execute your child for perpetual wrongful doing but remember that their eternity is at stake and you will give an account to God on how you raised your child.
This is why I encourage parents to pray for their children even before they are born and the prayers should not stop when they are born. In James 5:16, we see that the effectual fervent prayers of a righteous person avails much, and James 2:20 &26 tells us that faith without works is dead. While we pray and trust God to keep our children in the ways of the Lord, we still need to do the needful.
Teach them, guide them, caution, correct, discipline and pray for them. Hophni and Phinehas had a terrible end and it is my earnest prayer that my children and the children of those reading this post will fear the Lord and love Him for who He is. Let us be faithful mothers. Let us be the faithful parents God has called us to be.
Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
It is important to teach our children the word of God and the earlier the better. I taught my first son the first memory verse when he was about two and a half. It was “One Lord, one faith, one baptism- Ephesians 4:5”. It was such a joyous moment to hear him recite it. I must confess, I had taught him that verse with the hopes that he would be able to recite in the children’s week of that year (in front of the whole church) because children in the church I attend often do Bible recitations. When it became apparent that He would not be able (and would not even be steady) to recite in public, I decided to wait another year till when he would be a little more mature. This year, I resumed with the memory verses and it has been fantastic. The best part is, my second son who is two years old memorizes the verses too. I love how excited they are about each new verse and how they excitedly recap the verses of the previous week.
And ye shall teach them your children, speaking of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.Deuteronomy 11:19
When I was a child, my parents taught us in this way too. Believe me when I say, it never departs from your children. To this very day, I remember most of those verses. Sometimes, when it seemed we could not memorize certain verses, my mum made it into a song to enable us learn faster.God is awesome and I am thankful for the opportunity God has given me to raise future members of His army. Children have so much trust in their parents that they will learn whatever we teach them. Read Bible stories to them, make it fun and exciting, read to them over and over again and make it interactive. Stimulating their interest in God is for your own good (well…and theirs too).
I realized that when I recite the memory verses with my children over and over again, It also helps me learn the verses i never knew. So get on board. From time to time, I will post some of the verses my children have learnt and are learning as guide for those who are willing to introduce memory verse learning to their children. Stay tuned!!!
We will not hide them from their children,
shewing to the generation to come
the praises of the Lord, and his strength,
and his wonderful works that he hath done. Psalm 78:4
Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another. (Galatians 5:26)
Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying (Romans 13:13)
A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones (Proverbs 14:30)
Envy is the desire of something that belongs to someone else, this desire often causes resentment and discontentment. Harold Coffin said envy is when we count our neighbour’s blessings instead of our own. I find that to be pretty accurate. Envy is typically a negative emotion and all the biblical references of envy or envious emotions point towards negativity.
Becoming a mom got me thinking seriously about envy as a sin I have often overlooked. The thing is, I have often found myself in situations like what I described in the previous paragraph. Wanting what the children of other people have etc as opposed to realising that my life is different and my children have their own needs which may not necessarily be the same as other people’s needs. In this age of social media, it is even more common and easier to get stuck on the lives of others while forgetting that we have our own lives to focus on.
Envy is one of those sins that begets several other sins such as covetousness and strife(which God specifically warned against). Unaddressed envy can ruin lives, marriages and even our relationship with God- I know this for certain because I have been there, It is really hard to focus on God when you are too busy daydreaming about having the life you think someone else has and detesting them for having a ‘good life’. Many people have gone as far as finding ways to outshine the other person or wishing ill towards the person they envy (1 Corinthians 3:3, Colossians 3:5, Exodus 20:17, Mark 7:21-23)
Envy is a sin!!! (Galatians 5:21, 1 Peter 2:1, )
Thankfully, we have a remedy for sin.
Repent!!! (1 John 1:9, Romans 12:21)
Talk to God about this demonic spirit (James 3:14-16).
Envy would make you aspire to be like someone else so much that you struggle to measure up. So many people are ‘competing’ with people who really have no idea about them. I guess in a way, this can be idolatry because someone else has become the standard. Remember the first commandment? (Exodus 20:3, Ephesians 5:5).
Many times, the people we envy are unbelievers and the word of God has strictly warned against that. (Proverbs 23:17, 24:19).
If you want your marriage to work, envying another person’s marriage does not help.
If you want obedient and responsible children, envying another person’s seemingly well adjusted children is definitely not the answer.
I have heard several people say envy can be a good thing or a good motivataor, unfortunately the Bible does not say so. Time and time again, believers have been warned against any form of envy.
I know people talk about Proverbs 31 a lot however, the first part of verse 28 caught my attention a few days ago.
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Proverbs 31:28 KJV
My children do not call me blessed. Well, they are 3 years old, 2 years old and 2 months old. When I lived with my parents, I never called my mum blessed despite the fact that she is a good mother. Maybe I was too stuck up or too stupid but as an adult I can proudly say my mother is a blessed woman.
The truth is, as mothers, a lot of the stuff we do may go unnoticed but you know something? A day will come when they will look back and understand everything you have done. They will call you blessed.
Do not give up!!! Even when you feel discouraged. Cast your burdens upon the Lord, Jesus is the affirmation you need.
Thank You Lord for my family, help me to serve them with love and joy. In my weakness, be my strength. Comfort me when I feel discouraged. Help me to appreciate good days and to remember such days when I feel overwhelmed In Jesus Name. Amen.
It is always an exciting thing when a child is born. As believers, we are supposed to take everything to God in prayer and we commit everything into God’s hands including the future and lives of our children.
My guess is if you are reading this, you probably just had a baby or someone you know just did and you want to lift them up in prayer. Well look no further. Here are 10 bible areas I think are worth praying over your newborn like I did for mine.
1. For God’s presence to always be with her.
Pray that in all her endeavours the presence of God will be with her. No circumstance shall break her communion with the Lord in Jesus Name.
Psalm: 145: 18. The LORD is nigh unto all them that call upon him, to all that call upon him in truth.
Exodus: 33: 14. And he said, My presence shall go with thee, and I will give thee rest.
Jeremiah: 29: 13. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
1 Corinthians: 3: 16. Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
2. For salvation and an eternity with God
Salvation is not transferable from parent to child. That being said, we can pray for the Lord to touch the lives of our children or pray that they have an encounter with God just like Apostle Paul did. The end result of being saved is that their eternity with God is guaranteed. It is important that our children hear the voice of God and open up their hearts to Him.
Matthew: 7:13-14. Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.
Romans: 10: 9-10. That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
Revelation: 3: 20. Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.
3. For Godly wisdom and discernment
In all areas of life, we need the Godly wisdom to guide us, we need to be able to discern what is God’s will and what is not God’s will. This is a very important area to pray on because our children will grow up and will be faced with daily decisions. It is important that they remain in God’s will.
Proverbs: 3: 13. Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding.
Proverbs: 24: 13-14. My son, eat thou honey, because it is good; and the honeycomb, which is sweet to thy taste: So shall the knowledge of wisdom be unto thy soul: when thou hast found it, then there shall be a reward, and thy expectation shall not be cut off.
James: 1: 5. If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
James: 3: 17. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
Proverbs: 16: 16. How much better is it to get wisdom than gold! and to get understanding rather to be chosen than silver!
Philippians: 1: 9-10. And this I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment; That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ;
4. For an obedient and teachable spirit.
Pray that your child will allow herself to be corrected by the word of God and that she will submit to Godly authority, advice and counseling. Pray for the Holy Spirit to convict her whenever she goes wrong and that she will take correction well.
Ephesians: 6: 1-3. Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;) That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.
1 Peter: 5: 5-6. Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time:
Proverbs: 12: 1. Whoso loveth instruction loveth knowledge: but he that hateth reproof is brutish.
5. That she will fulfill her days
It is the prayer of every parent that their children will live long. We do not know God’s will but we know His grace, His mercies and His compassion. You can pray that God should show mercy on your child and let her live to fulfill her days, let her not die young and let God perfect everything that concerns her.
Psalm: 91: 16. With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.
Jeremiah: 29: 11. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end
Psalm: 138: 8. The LORD will perfect that which concerneth me: thy mercy, O LORD, endureth for ever: forsake not the works of thine own hands.
6. Family unity and togetherness
Pray that your child will be a source of joy, peace, unity and togetherness to your family. Pray that because of her, God will strengthen, renew and restore love and unity in your family. Also pray that she will be a source of joy and hope to everyone who comes in contact with her, Let the glory of God radiate through her.
Psalm: 133: 1. Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
Mark: 3: 25. And if a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand.
7. For God’s Blessings and Grace (Favour)
God’s blessings are like no other. The blessings of God do not cause sorrow. Pray that your child will continue to find favour in the sight of God and that she will be blessed in all her endeavours.
Psalm: 45: 2. Thou art fairer than the children of men: grace is poured into thy lips: therefore God hath blessed thee for ever.
Genesis: 6: 8. But Noah found grace in the eyes of the LORD.
Psalm: 67: 1. God be merciful unto us, and bless us; and cause his face to shine upon us; Selah.
Numbers: 6: 24-27. The LORD bless thee, and keep thee: The LORD make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee: The LORD lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace. And they shall put my name upon the children of Israel; and I will bless them.
8. For God’s protection
God is the only sure source of protection, No one can watch over your child more than the Lord can. So commit your child to Him, Ask God to be her guide. To protect her from evil people, bad friends, bad decisions and anything in general that is not of God.
Nahum: 1: 7. The LORD is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and he knoweth them that trust in him.
Psalm: 91: 7. A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
9. A loving and compassionate spirit
Jesus is our example of love. Pray that your child will be as loving and compassionate to others as Jesus was. Pray that she will be guided by the love of God and she will extend this love and compassion to others.
John: 13: 34. A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
1 Corinthians: 13: 4-5. Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
Colossians: 3: 12-13. Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
10. For her health
God does not only care about our souls, He cares about our bodies too. As long as we are alive, our bodies must glorify Him. Infirmities and the rest can be prayed against. The same God who gave life to your child will keep her in health, pray that whenever sicknesses arise, God will defeat them and renew her health.
3 John: 1: 2. Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.
Proverbs: 17: 22. A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.
Jeremiah: 33: 6. Behold, I will bring it health and cure, and I will cure them, and will reveal unto them the abundance of peace and truth.
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2. Coming to God only when you need something
3. You rarely evangelise or talk to others about Christ. Religion is a private thing to you. Matthew 10:32-33
4. You compromise with the world. You do things because other people are doing them not because of what God says. Luke 6:26, Revelation 3:1, Matthew 23:5-7
5. You want to be saved from hell but not necessarily from sin. You are not truly sorry for your sins. Romans 6:1-2, John 10:10
6. You rarely think about eternity. Life on earth means everything to you. Philippians 3:18-20
7. You often think those who obey in full and live as God expects are radical and too extreme. You are content with being “average”. James 1:22-25, James 4:17, Matthew 21:28-31
8. You find ways to justify sin and call people who keep biblical doctrines “law keepers” Galatians 5:19-21, Hebrews 10:26, Revelation 22:19
9. You frequently say “do not judge” even when the Biblical stance on certain issues are clear as day. 1 Corinthians 2:15, Proverbs 31:9, Leviticus 19:15, Ezekiel 22:2, John 7:24, Matthew 7:1-5
10. You think good works make you born again or could be the same as salvation. Ephesians 2:8-9, Titus 3:5, John 15:6, Isaiah 64:6